Join us in celebrating our 25th anniversary

What are the symptoms of sexual dysfunctions?1

Sexual dysfunctions interfere with a client’s ability to initiate, experience, and enjoy sexual activity. They can include premature ejaculation, painful intercourse, erectile dysfunction, and female orgasmic disorder.

How common are sexual dysfunctions?1

They vary in prevalence:
  • 20 to 30 out of every 100 men report problems with premature ejaculation.
  • 15 out of 100 woman report painful intercourse.
  • 13 to 21 out of every 100 men ages 40 to 80 report erectile problems.
  • 10 to 40 out of every 100 women report orgasmic problems.

What is CBT for sexual dysfunctions like?

For all disorders, the CBT therapist starts by educating clients about their diagnosis, helps them set goals, and socializes them to CBT by teaching them essential thinking and behavioral skills. CBT for both premature ejaculation and erectile problems focuses on removing the pressure to perform. Anxiety about performance causes men to focus away from their own sensations, develop thoughts of failure, and tense their bodies when sexually aroused. CBT therapists teach these clients relaxation and refocusing tools to heighten awareness of their sensations, to focus on pleasure, to reduce anxiety and the demand to perform. Sensate focus, a form of intimate touch without intercourse, is one tool used to reduce pressure, and is of particular use for erectile dysfunction. A variety of tools (stop, start or squeeze methods) can be used to delay ejaculation. Treatment of painful intercourse centers on the role anxiety has in triggering or exacerbating pain. Clients learn muscle relaxation, coping statements, communication skills, guided imagery, and mindful awareness to reduce the muscle tension and negative self-focus associated with pain. Similar interventions may be used with orgasmic difficulties, with a special emphasis on overall stress reduction, as well as examining beliefs that lead to feelings of shame, embarrassment or guilt. In all cases, couples therapy may also be used to explore issues in communication, to offer practice in listening and self-expression skills, and to examine beliefs the partners have about themselves and their relationship.

1American Psychiatric Association. (2013). Diagnostic and statistical manual of mental disorders (5th ed.). Arlington, VA: American Psychiatric Publishing. doi:10.1176/appi.books.9780890425596.744053